don't have to be with them to love them..

" ...i now know that trust isn't based on the length of time i've known someone...but, how i'm feeling with someone at that moment in time. "

" ...when we're babies, we just 'are', and we don't have to worry about what we're going 'to be'...but, when we grow up, we worry about what we're going 'to be', and we often stop being who we are... "

" ...i always love to see you...but, i don't have to see you to always love you. "

" ...the more i look for the perfect person to fulfill me, the more possessive i am for fear of losing them...the more that i see that we are all perfect, and it's journey of staying in touch with that perfection that's so fulfilling, the more i allow others to grow, and i become closer to them. "

" ...i used to feel spent wondering what you were feeling...now, it's a wonderful feeling spending time with you, knowing we can share "WHATEVER" we are feeling. "

" ...it hurts that others want to hurt us...it hurts more, if we don't see that others want to hurt us because they've been hurt by others...and it hurts most, if we want to hurt others beacuse others have wanted to hurt us. " --->as Gandhi said so beautifully......'an eye for an eye and we'll all be blind.'

" ...the unconditional love you have shown me in a moment, has shown me, that it 'is' possible to love, at every moment, under all conditions. "

" ...i want to talk with you to understand how you feel......not to try to make you feel the way i do. "


" ...when i speak i'm saying what i already know, when i listen i want to know more than i'm able to say......
when i argue i need to be right, when i discuss i want to share......i hope my desire to love, is stronger than my need to be right."

" ... the more open we are the less we seem strangers......i've known people i've just met better than some people i've known for years......i've known people who i've become strangers with......i just hope we're always open......you're just too precious to be a stranger. "


" My painful experiences can be positive as they can make me a deeper and more understanding person;
My beautiful experiences are positive and they give me extra strength and faith to face my painful experiences.
If i avoid having painful experiences, i seem to lose the beautiful ones......and my spirit S.l.o.w.l.y. d.i.e.s. "

" If you have somtehing nice to say about me, please say it to me now while i'm still alive and need it, not when it's too late and i'm gone already. "

" ...when i'm infatuated, i 'only see' how good-looking someone is...and then i 'hope' they're a beautiful person......when i'm loving, i 'see only' the beauty within someone...and it doesn't matter how they look. "

" ...when i forgive, i'm freeing myself to love at that moment in my life......when i forget that i forgave, i'm filling my life full of those moments......if i'm here for giving......i'll be getting, if i'm here for getting......i hope i'll be forgiven. "

" ...If you won't be honest with me because you're worried about hurting me......you'll hurt me so much more if i find out you were dishonest."

" ...one of the most beautiful things about you is your warmth and love for people...
...it's what attracted me to you;
...it's what the world really needs;
...it's what makes you so 'SPECIAL'...
...i hope i always encourage, and not try to process, the love you have for people and life......it will make our relationship 'special'. "

" The moments we share together are so special. Thank you for them and for the magic of you.."


"Your laughter makes my eyes brighter...so don't stop laughing...
Your smile makes my heart enlightened...so don't stop smiling...
You are what makes my day perfect...so don't leave me...
When i relax my mind begins to reflect..
On how wonderful life has been...since you came..."

" I may not be able to help you or make you feel better..But, i'll be there for you. Even if you don't speak one word and cry in silence..i'll be by your side cause that's what friends are for.."